The best duas for marriage come straight from the Quran and Sunnah. If you are hoping for a righteous spouse, the most beloved is Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyyatina qurrata a’yun (Al-Furqan 25:74), asking Allah for a spouse and children who bring you joy. Alongside it, many Muslims make the dua of Prophet Musa, Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqir (Al-Qasas 28:24), and the Prophet’s own dua for guidance and chastity from Sahih Muslim. Learning these duas, and the manners of asking, is part of what we cover in our Islamic marriage classes.
This guide gathers authentic duas for each stage, from searching for a spouse to the nikah and beyond, with meanings, sources and practical advice on making them.
Key takeaways
- Al-Furqan 25:74 is the best-known Quranic dua for a righteous spouse and family.
- You may ask Allah in any language, in your own words, for a spouse with the qualities you hope for.
- The Sunnah gives a specific dua for congratulating newlyweds: Barakallahu laka wa baraka ‘alayka.
- No authentic source fixes a number of repetitions or a secret formula that guarantees marriage.
Why Dua Matters in Seeking Marriage
The Quran describes marriage as one of Allah’s signs: He created spouses for you from among yourselves so that you find tranquility with them, and placed affection and mercy between you (Ar-Rum 30:21). Something Allah calls a sign is worth asking Him for directly.
Dua also keeps your search balanced. It reminds you that a good spouse is provision from Allah, which protects you from despair when things move slowly and from pride when they move fast. Sincere dua goes hand in hand with practical effort: asking about character, involving family and praying istikhara for marriage once a specific proposal is on the table.
Duas When You Are Looking for a Spouse
Rabbana hab lana (Al-Furqan 25:74)
This dua comes at the end of Surah Al-Furqan, in the description of the “servants of the Most Merciful.” They ask Allah for spouses and offspring who are qurrata a’yun, a phrase meaning “coolness of the eyes,” the calm delight of seeing someone you love doing well. It suits both single people and married couples.
The dua of Musa (Al-Qasas 28:24)
After Prophet Musa fled Egypt and helped two women water their flock, he sat in the shade and said: “My Lord, I am in need of whatever good You send down to me.” In the ayahs that follow, one of the women returns with an invitation from her father, and the story ends with Musa marrying one of his daughters (28:25 to 27). The dua itself asks for good in general, not marriage specifically, but its story is why so many single Muslims treasure it.
The dua of Zakariya (Al-Anbiya 21:89)
Zakariya called on his Lord: “Do not leave me alone, and You are the best of inheritors.” His request was for a child, and Allah granted him Yahya. Many people who feel lonely in their search find comfort in these words.
The Prophet’s dua for chastity (Sahih Muslim)
Allahumma inni as’alukal-huda wat-tuqa wal-‘afafa wal-ghina asks for guidance, piety, chastity and self-sufficiency. For a single Muslim protecting their modesty while waiting, it covers exactly what is needed.
Duas for a Righteous Spouse and Family
| Dua | Source | What you ask for |
|---|---|---|
| Rabbana hab lana min azwajina… | Al-Furqan 25:74 | A spouse and children who are a joy |
| Rabbi hab li min ladunka dhurriyyatan tayyibah | Al Imran 3:38 | Good offspring |
| Rabbi hab li minas-salihin | As-Saffat 37:100 | A righteous child |
| Rabbij’alni muqimas-salati wa min dhurriyyati | Ibrahim 14:40 | A family steadfast in prayer |
| Rabbana atina fid-dunya hasanah | Al-Baqarah 2:201 | Good in this life and the next |
Use the flashcards below to learn the Arabic, the pronunciation and the meaning of each dua, one card at a time.
Marriage Duas Flashcards
Flip each card to see the dua, how to say it and where it comes from
Duas Around the Nikah
Congratulating the couple. Abu Hurayrah reported that when the Prophet (peace be upon him) congratulated someone on marriage, he would say: Barakallahu laka, wa baraka ‘alayka, wa jama’a baynakuma fi khayr, “May Allah bless you, shower His blessings upon you and unite you both in goodness” (Sunan Abi Dawud and Jami’ at-Tirmidhi). It is a beautiful replacement for generic wedding wishes.
Welcoming the bride. When Aisha was being prepared for her wedding, the women of the Ansar greeted her with ‘Alal-khayri wal-barakah, wa ‘ala khayri ta’ir, “Upon goodness and blessing, and upon the best of fortune” (Sahih al-Bukhari).
The first meeting after the nikah. The Prophet taught that when a man marries, he should ask Allah for the good of his wife and the good of the nature Allah created in her, and seek refuge from any harm (Sunan Abi Dawud). It sets the tone of a marriage built on asking Allah for goodness.
Private moments. The Sunnah also includes a short dua for when spouses come together in private, beginning with Bismillah and asking Allah to keep Satan away from them and from any child they are given (Sahih al-Bukhari and Sahih Muslim). It is on the last flashcard. These Sunnah duas, together with the etiquette of the wedding and the early months of marriage, are taught in our marriage preparation course.
When and How to Make Your Dua
There is no special prayer for marriage, but the Sunnah points to times and manners when dua is especially hoped to be answered:
- The last third of the night. The Prophet told us that Allah descends to the lowest heaven at that time and asks who is calling on Him so He may answer (Sahih al-Bukhari and Sahih Muslim).
- In sujud. A servant is closest to his Lord while prostrating, so increase your dua there (Sahih Muslim). Many scholars allow dua in your own language in voluntary prayers; in obligatory prayers some schools prefer Arabic, so check with your teacher.
- Between the adhan and the iqamah, a time reported as one in which dua is not rejected.
- Begin with praise of Allah and blessings on the Prophet, then ask with certainty and patience, without saying “I asked and was not answered.”
You are free to name the qualities you hope for: someone who prays, who is kind, who will support your deen. Our guide to choosing a spouse in Islam can help you decide which qualities to put first.
Practices to Be Careful With
Some popular advice online promises marriage within days if you repeat a certain phrase a fixed number of times, or offers a “wazifa” to make a particular person want to marry you. There is no authentic basis for fixed counts that guarantee results, and anything involving amulets or attempts to control another person’s heart should be avoided entirely.
Authentic dua is simpler and more powerful: ask Allah sincerely, as often as you like, in any words, and trust His timing. You can also ask your parents and righteous friends to make dua for you.
Dua with action. Making dua while also preparing yourself, learning the rights of spouses and taking sensible steps is the balanced way. Many people use the waiting period to study what a healthy Muslim marriage looks like, which is exactly what our article on what you learn in an online Islamic marriage course describes.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the best dua for getting married?
Many scholars point to Al-Furqan 25:74, Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyyatina qurrata a’yun, because it asks for a righteous spouse and family together. The dua of Musa in Al-Qasas 28:24 and the Prophet’s dua for guidance and chastity are also widely made. You can add your own words in any language.
Can I make dua to marry a specific person?
Yes, you may ask Allah for marriage to a particular person if that marriage is good for you, and many scholars advise adding “if it is good for my religion and my life.” Pair it with istikhara once a proposal is real, and accept the outcome Allah decrees.
Is Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqir a dua for marriage?
It is a general dua asking Allah for any good He sends. It is linked to marriage because, right after Musa made it, Allah opened the way to his marriage in Madyan. It is a beautiful dua for anyone hoping for a spouse, a job or any other provision.
What dua do you say to a newly married couple?
The Sunnah dua is Barakallahu laka, wa baraka ‘alayka, wa jama’a baynakuma fi khayr: may Allah bless you, shower His blessings on you and unite you both in goodness. It is reported in Sunan Abi Dawud and Jami’ at-Tirmidhi.
Where can I learn more about preparing for marriage Islamically?
Duas are one part of preparation, alongside the rights of spouses, communication and choosing well. Our online Islamic marriage course covers these topics one-to-one, and converts can find specific guidance in our article on marriage for converts.
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